Spend some time praying for guidance, talk to your confidants, and think it over for an appropriate amount of time.
Then follow your heart and make the decision that seems right to you, when you’re ready.
Don’t be paralyzed with indecision, but conversely, don’t let people pressure you into making decisions you’re not sure about.
Do not worry about losing your bashert — this is like saying “my life will be ruined!” Heaven forbid a person should think such a distressing thought. Trust in Hashem that he will guide you to make the right decisions.