WIY, I don’t disagree with anything you said. However, you can still do the research on your own, or just keep your eyes open and if you see someone at a wedding that piques your interest, ask about her and approach her yourself. You don’t HAVE TO go through shadchanim, and there’s nothing wrong with approaching a girl, that’s what R’ Feinstein was saying. I was just decrying the perception that doing so is in some way a lack of tzniyus.
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