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rationalfrummie -“There was a study that came out 4 years ago from London university that baed on a sample of 17,000 people, men that went to same-gender schools are more likely to be divorced or never married by their 40s. Depression was also fairly hiigher than for co–Ed schools,”
I’m not even going to look up the study to refute it. Ya know why? Because even if the study is accurate -it’s irrevelant because we still have to follow Halacha no matter what!
Stop looking for excuses to be Mattir Issurim!
“I’m not an advocate for mixed schools at all, but kal vachomer the situation would be even worse for guys if they NEVER talk to girls even outside of school in normalized settings.”
Like I just said, even if it would be worse -we still can’t be Mattir Issurim.
“If you make conversing taboo, it will lead to either bored experimentation that’s definitely not halachic or awkwardness.”
I didn’t make conversing taboo -the Torah Assured it, no matter what the outcome. And your assumption that it will lead to “bored experimentation that’s definitely not halachic”, is simply ridiculous.