RF -“Halacha is Halacha, you’re right. But in this case it seems like those that are noheg like rav health, and the mekoros you never quoted often times end up doing very poorly in life, per the study.”
This is why I question whether you talk to the opposite gender or Not because of your double talk. First you say “Halacha is Halacha” and then you say “those that are noheg like rav health”. I’m Not the one Assuring Stam talking to opposite genders -the Torah is. Are you ignorant in this Din? The Gemorra says “Afeilu Sicha Kalla Bein Ish Lishto Asid Leetain Es Hadin” -for sure s/o who is Not your wife! This Din is also brought down in S’A and Poskim.