Torah613Torah -“What an original idea. No frum girl has ever refused a shidduch with a boy who smoked.”
He didn’t mean a few -they ALL should.
Ender -“RebDoniel- with the current state of affairs in the “shidduch market” i can’t imagine girls turning down guys en mass like that.”
This is one of the few times I agree with Doniel -they should all reject such Shidduchim. It seems that there are many girls rejecting Shidduchim if the guy is on the Net and/or watching TV or movies, but there aren’t that many rejecting smokers.
Perhaps it’s because noone realizes the spiritual dangers of smoking, but I just heard that they are having another Asifa in Lakewood against the Net next week because it’s the Yohrzeit of Citifield.