Yankel Avinu and Rukhl Imanu had chemistry before chuppa.
A Bas Yisroel should smile ear to ear, but no one does all the time.
One can have chemistry and smile ear to ear and still have doubt.
Love is Truth and both come from HaShem and are not afraid of having doubt.
Be a kli, Caleefornia – recieve to give and gve to receive.
Be Open.
HaShem should Bless you with Chuppa and a Bayis Ne’eman B’Yisroel With your Beshert B’Emes!