Reply To: Everything is great, but I'm not sure if there is chemistry!

sharp, can you explain that concept of not letting yourself be attracted? i think that may be part of my problem.

Also, i was thinking maybe it has to do with the fact that he’s so excited and so forward–before he told me all this, i had no idea he was feeling this way, i couldnt tell how interested he was. and thats when i did feel attraction.

but now that he told me, i find myself being a bit put off. is that a problem? is it something i can work on?