Reply To: Does not believing in the shidduch crisis make you a koifer?

DY

This thread is chatzi serious. Im not feeling like going into it but I dont believe there is any crisis whatsoever. Or at least the who age gap thing is unproven and is just a theory. Nobody really knows how many single people there are out there of either gender. I think there are a lot of people who are very picky and I think the mothers of many of these “crisis” girls are the reason they are single. Of course there are also the girls who dont think guys have eyes and care about physical appearance and all that. There are valid reasons why people are single. Of course theres also the obvious that everyone ignores which is that Hashem runs the world and He decides when its time for you to get married and He knows when is the proper time. Its a whole bunch of hype and hysteria probably started by some rich people who couldnt marry off their spoiled brats by 20.