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PBA: Double chin? 🙂
OOM: I totally agree. I don’t know f boys’ hormones are like WIY says or no, but that is really not the point. The rapid 180 girls are expected to turn in attitude the second they get home from seminary is really ridiculous. If guys are hormonal at 17, they’ll be hormonal at 23 just as well. If we’re supposed to despise boys, what exactly is changing about them the moment we step off the plane?
I happen to have read that list a while back and it absolutely appalled me. “You can never ever trust a boy”? “Every boy is a liar, a pervert, a jerk”? What makes it even worse is that in half the population you end up with an ingrained mistrust of boys that is NOT going to magically evaporate by shidduch time and on the other end you get girls who are so turned off by this list (people have brothers, you know) that they go to the opposite extreme. (Trust me, I know both types. It’s ridiculous.)