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Just random thoughts popping into my head:
(Not necessarily Jewish/Halacha related, but might be relationship related)
Even if men are pigs as the Gadol Hagirls R’ Orlofsky teaches, girls are now aware of it. So when they have a relationship with a pig, they know what they’re getting into and how to deal with it. It is also a good learning experience for a real relationship when the boy wakes up and suddenly is not a pig (usually by aged 50-60 and then by 70 he’s a pig again).
Everyone has hormones, but it is true that teenagers have it worse, both girls and boys. It’s like a car that just turned on in the cold. It will take a few minutes for the car to warm up. You drive carefully, without revving the engine, etc. So too a teenager, the hormones are starting to kick in and they have to learn how to deal with it. An adult male/female of 25/30/40 still has those hormones but they are more experienced and know how to handle it.