He’s currently learning full time but isn’t makpid on skirt length. I”m very serious
So what you’re saying is, he doesn’t care about halacha. Sounds like a lovely boy.
This strikes me as odd. People don’t apply the same leniencies to say, keeping Shabbos, as they do for tznius. I think that we spend a lot of time giving reasons why (and many of these reasons are garbage) that we forget that it is an obligation. Would you drive on Shabbos? No. Because in your head that’s non-negotiable. Same should go for tznius.