Not everyone who considers themselves frum keeps everything
I think Ive heard a term Shomrei Mitzvas (Or something like that) to distunguish between an orthodox person and a charedi person.
There are plenty of people who go to Orthodox shuls who do not keep Tacharas Mishpacha, Plenty of women who dont cover their hair or wear pants.
There are plenty of men who do not go to shul everyday, Wear Tzizzit or Tfillin everyday
There are frum people who cheat on their taxes (Many Openly) who commit other kinds of Thefts
There are yeshivas who launder drug money
The point is there is much averaihs going on.
Let Hashem Decide