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My best advice to you is contact Ptach in Brooklyn or Cahal in the 5 towns/Far Rockaway and they can give you advice on how to proceed. What you need to get and how to get it.
You will need to go to your local City Board of Ed district to get that IEP (They go into yeshivas all the time)
Ptach can also probably give you suggestions on tutiton help, it is available