Oomis, how is tefillin different than lulav? Women were not commanded to do either. “
A woman can bensch esrog and hold the lulav in privacy in her home and get the mitzvah. If those WOW were doing the same with the Tefillin, I would have nothing to say about them. It is the completely DISRUPTIVE nature of their actions, calculated to SHOW THE WORLD THAT THEY CAN do what they want and pretend it is in the name of spirituality, to which I personally object. I am sorry you cannot see the difference.