Jewish feminist: Your mashal is lovely. It doesn’t exactly make any valid point. What you’re saying is that we should do what we have to do to enhance our connection with Hashem. That’s very nice as long as what you are doing is kosher.
They do not have pure motives. What they are doing is very controversial and their long term goals are not in accordance with halacha.
I think eating pork would greatly enhance my connection with Hashem. But I don’t do that. Because it is assur.