Stam commenting on them finding favor in your eyes is pashtus an issur di’oraysah.
If you think is an Issur D’Oraysa to think a woman named Irina Sendler who smuggled 2000 Jewish children out of the Warsaw Ghetto was eventually caught by the Nazis, Was tortured (including having both feet broken) was sentenced to death (Only to be saved by a bribery before the firing squad) and had to be on the run during the rest of the war because the Nazis were looking for her doesnt deserve our Admiration, then I think your posek is wrong on this one