Vogue- first of all, you boiled it down to the main problem- you talk to the boys because the talk to girls. If it is at a family simcha, or in shul, or in the supermarket. no matter where it is you’ll find these guys. but you can be different. yes it might be hard to stay away, and you’ll probably have to do a transition type thing to get out of this. but at a family friends simcha, so you can be nice and say hello and ask how are you, but show the boys that you are ininterested at the moment. keep is a little cold shouldered, but still be kind. dont go on flirting away, you’ll give off the wrong messages and they will come flocking back. you need to state your ground and be strong. there are girls or other poeple in these places to hang out with
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