rebdoniel!
I appreciated your discussion about very important matters. I support some of your ideas but you will have to answer me hoe do you reconcile a “get me-useh” (where the husband is compeleld) with “kofin oisio ad she=omer rotzeh ani”. I have not been able to delve into that very difficult sugay but this questions is so trabsparent and I don’;t see anyone answering it.
As far as Gyur- we have become so convoluted in oru reasoning that we have totally lost the original way of gyur. AS per Halacha, there should be no requirement that a prospecive ger does all the mitzvos. What is necessary is the “kabboloh”- the acceptance of the obligation. The rest is “zil gemor’- as Hillel told the ger.
Secondly, if a guyur is done ‘kehalocho “(milah,tevilah) then nothing in the world can change that,even if the ger subsequently does not follow the mitzvas. Here again, it is the original intent that is importsnt, not the actual execution.
I have only touched two serious issues where – to my humble mind- we have digressed far, farr from the original intent.