Reply To: Would you ever withhold a ???

I am talking about where it is for leverage (extortion), not revenge.

To those saying to settle the fights in court- it is assur to take a jew to a secular court. (Actually, it is even assur to take a goy, according to some shittos.)

Also, my hypothetical built in other elements which may not be settled properly in court. Like suppose she makes up stories that he molests the kids, and she got a restraining order against him so that he isn’t allowed to ever see his kids until they are 18, and the court didn’t believe him.

Do you think this issue will split down the gender line? Is that strange? Don’t the women here have brothers, and the men here have sisters?