I remember during “Basic Training” when a Sergeant claimed that “he had methods worse than Hitler”… But when I commented later that he really was like Hitler, boy did I get into trouble…
They are total Hippocrates- on one hand they want the frum to “share the burden”, but on the other they have no interest in accommodating them. In was this way 30+ years ago when I was in the service and it’s only gotten worse. At least we weren’t forced to listen to women singing…
To quote (or very close to a quote)a well know Rov, far from extremist- the difference between the Zionists and Reform-
The Reform wished to remove Tzion from the Siddur
The Zionists wished (and still do) to remove the Siddur from Tzion