Obviously I don’t know or claim to know everything that’s wrong with shidduchim. I think a big part of it is that boys are too picky. Another big issue– the one that is relevant to this subject– is that there is simply too much pressure on both the boys and the girls. Sure, there are “organized singles events”. But if you allow boys and girls to meet more naturally at a wedding, maybe they will be more relaxed and there will be less pressure. This way, when they introduce themselves, their true personalities will be allowed to come through and they are more likely to get along well.
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