There was no liquor at my wedding except for the wine we drank under the chuppah and a few bottles of Scotch at the tisch. Certainly none of the singles (or other guests, for that matter) were drunk or otherwise “uninhibited”.
For those who are confused, please go back and reread my original post. I mentioned two shidduch issues– one that is relevant to mixed weddings, and one that is not relevant to mixed weddings.
Seating men and women together at weddings will not make the boys any more or less picky. It will, however, take the strain and pressure off of both the boys and the girls and allow them to “be themselves”, which will facilitate natural shidduchim.