“If two people have comparable worldviews, envision their lives similarly enough, find each other physically attractive, and value the other person’s life experiences, then that ought to be good enough to make a shiddukh”
Couldn’t agree more. When I spoke to the shadchan I didn’t tell her a thing of what I wanted. I instead told her ‘this is who i am, this is what I’ve done, this is where I’m headed and this is why I want to get there. Given what I’ve told you about me, I am looking for someone who I can best help fulfill his future and who can best help fulfill mine’