DaasYochid: You are confusing me. I checked back and our conversation started when I responded to GrowupAlready who wrote that halacha is ‘uncompromising” (hence the hardline positions of the chareidim)and I sadi that there plenty of sources that show that halocho is NOT “uncompromising”- and looking to find the “easier’ way out.
You chimed in and said that ‘when you have no “rayah’ you should be machmir. ON THAT_I answered that you are incorrect and that we find plenty of sources who find that “paskening lekuloh’ is the way to og.
How am I now changing the subject?