moi aussi,
The Torah forbids the action not the attraction. Everybody has different yetzer horahs. Although it is possible to develop a yetzer for something, for the most part people don’t have control of the tayvas they are subject to from the outset. The Torah forbids you from acting on those tayvas against halacha.
Thank Hashem that you don’t have this yetzer, that you don’t have this nisayon.
Health,
I think jewishfeminist is talking about choosing to have the yetzer, not choosing to act on the yetzer.