This post is where you have gone over to the Charedi bashers side.
It’s Not the job of the leaders to police every criminal in their community.
But it is their job to police evey Tznius violation?
I wouldn’t call myself on either side. As far as I’m concerned, Rav Shteinman said to be passive and be Marbeh in Tefilah and Limud. I agree with those such as yichusdik the Mea Shearim crowd (which does not follow the Gedolei HaDor) is not against beating up soldiers when they have the chance.
If the Charaidim were politically savvy (which they may not want to be for other reasons), they would disassociate themselves from that group (or at the very least try to explain the differences regarding supporting the state at large), and then no one would have any Tainos (and Aderaba, would note the restraint being shown).
Then again, doing so may go against the “passive” ruling of Rav Shteinman. I’m not sure.