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August 4, 2013 3:50 am at 3:50 am
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nitpicker
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I actually posed two questions when I started this as tangent of another thread.
why are most boys not ready for marriage at 18?
and
Ought we to try to change things so that most are?
I heard a story , I dont remember who it was about( I think it was a rebbe but not sure ) who was an advocate of earlier marriage. When a boy said he was some age older than 18 he said, “nu, ben shmoneh esrei lchuppa.” The boy answered, “ich shtai a langer shmoneh esrei”.
he rejoind with, “mit a langer shmoneh esrei, falihrt min kedusha!”.
How is that for instant ingenious riposte!