Rav Shteinman was all for the military option of some Bochurim. (The Israeli media and loud politicians chose to ignore this and the fact that the numbers of Chareidim joining was growing, and utilized Haya Tzareha Larosh to rise in power.) Why don’t these soldiers having family trouble contact such Gedolim, instead of like-minded people that have complete opposite views of the parents in question?
It is very a narrow minded way of dealing with things. If you know that someone sees things very different than you, then you should know that you can’t ‘reach out’ to them.