I’m talking about times where there is not much halacha, if any, about it. Like during Kabolas Shabbos.
Also, people need to be aware that there can be conflicting ideals; even when one ideal is clear and the other is nebulous. “Frummer” is not always better. In some (many? most?) situations, it might make more sense to not be medakdek k’chut hasaarah on a minhag tov even if it’s written in hilchos beis hakneses; if it means making people uncomfortable.
Everyone, VM explained himself.
You know what bothers me? When people say Tehilim during Shema and Chazaras Hashatz. I hope this only happens in the ladies’ section.