rabbiofberlin
People need to have their own common sense. The Rabbonim are not hand holding nannies. I don’t blame a Rav every time someone does something stupid. Lets face it we have plenty of people that just dont have common sense and don’t do smart things, like leaving babies in cars and other forms of insanity. The Rabbanim have no obligation to make sure people have brains in their heads. Thats the peoples job to try and live smartly. If you went through Yeshiva and still have no middos and no common sense and no idea how to behave you probably spaced out through most of it and therefore anything a Rav says now will have little impact.