Reply To: Getting the other to say no

I’m with OOM… why aren’t those viable options? You can’t be forced to date or marry someone you don’t want to. If you are doing it just to make the shadchan happy, which is a different point of debate on it’s own, then just buck up and bear through one date and then say he isn’t what you want in a husband and explain why. It can help the shadchan hone in on what you want better.