This is a terrible idea. I know someone who did this, and while he was doing all kinds of terrible things to get the woman he was dating to dump him, she was doing the same to him. They were unsuited before they each decided to induce the other to dump them, so you can imagine how bad it got when they were both being deliberately awful. Neither would capitulate, and eventually, there was no choice for them but to get married. It was the worst wedding I ever went to. Pictures dragged on for hours, the main course was served during the first dance, and they barely had a minyan for the sheva brachos. Fortunately they moved to a state that allowed for no fault divorce.
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