Sure, and I understand why people would want to kill people and steal their money and wives.
DY: You could just as easily say that people would want to do it because it is uncomfortable to be the one saying no. That’s no less or more of a good reason than not wanting to appear picky to the shadchan.
If I thought someone was doing this to me, I would tell every shadchan I know and every friend of mine about it. It would be l’toeles.