Reply To: Getting the other to say no

It’s okay people, this was a random option that occurred to me, I discussed it, it’s done. I will just be super polite on dates and say no, as I always have. (In any case, I am never obnoxious, period.)

My friend did this once on a first date when she first started dating, the guy had already managed to scratch 2 people’s cars, and was a bit socially off. The funny thing is it completely backfired, he apparently enjoyed the argument and she later had to date him again because he insisted he’d changed since the last time and spoke to many people who knew her. No, she did not marry him.