my sibs generally tell my parents after first trimester or later, but dont tell the siblings til close before they start showing. (and no, my parents don’t tell the other kids!) And with one exception, every single time i’ve known before. Once or twice i even slipped up and said something to the expectant mother, forgetting she hadn’t yet told me about it- oops! By now, when they tell me, they all ask me how long i’ve known. It’s more of a shock for me to find out that others had no idea!
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