Sorry, Interjection, but I am a woman and I can tell you that I have no where NEAR the same strong yetzer hara that a man has in that area. I’ve spoken about this with my (girl) friends, and my brother and his friends, and you can not compare.
Its just a fact, and its the way Hashem made the briyah since he created the world.
And by the way, that is one of the reasons why men have soo many more commandments then woman (like yarmulke, tzizus, torah) etc. cuz they need so much more to keep them in check.
Don’t get me wrong, we still have it but saying that it is equal is simply laughable.