There is a big difference between the generation growing up now and my generation when we were younger.
Unfortunately, you’re right. I tried to be dan l’caf z’chus that her rant was not directly aimed at anyone, but rather venting her frustration. But this last jab changed my mind. And her claiming that she was kidding seems like backtracking. I know I should again be dan l’caf z’chus, but how far can credibility be stretched?