Well, really the only thing to take comfort in is to know and truly believe that this new stage your beginning has already been planned out by hashem. As much as we have to do our hishtadlus, our shiduchim have already been hand picked for us, so if you keep that in mind there will be no worrying, no anxiety and no “competition” with your friends, because you know that your friend will get her husband who is right for her and you will get yours.
Dont trust in this shiduch crisis nonsense.