Iron penguin
Firstly although everyone makes it sound like there’s a crisis it’s mostly hype. There’s plenty of boys out there. I think that if you want to be matzliach most importantly you must Daven
a lot and really firmly put your betachon in Hashem. Also you really should know what you want. Don’t date a 5 year learner if you don’t want more than 3…whatever it is don’t go on a date before you know what you want. Forget about the peer pressure and what everyone else tells you to want. I personally know of girls who “thought” they wanted the long term learning thing only to find that after 3 or so years they are not so into it and now feel stuck with a husband who considers work a dirty word. I can’t stress this enough, you will be living with the guy, not your parents or your “smart” friends who will tell you what you want. Look into yourself and figure out what you really need to be happy and then contact a shadchan.