tips:
you are who you are and don’t let yourself be convinced otherwise. don’t change yourself for others. if you want to change, change for yourself. not because you want a shidduch.
you are going to get rejected at some point along the way. it stings bad. don’t let that ruin your self image. not everyone is for you.
laugh a lot. this stage can be frustrating, aggravating, demoralizing and emotionally draining. but you can always find something to laugh about.