Hashem’s name was erased as well in that case. Are you implying that if a spouse wants you to erase His name that you may do it for shalom bayis?? Definitely not!
You need to differentiate between basic shalom bayis (everyone smiling) to extreme cases, where a rav might guide you to disregard issurim/tznius. But don’t come home at night livid that supper isn’t ready, and then give up your basics of yiddishkeit!