Whenever I purchased anything my husband felt was untznius, he would say to me. Oh Honey, that is stunning, but I hope you will wear it ONLY for me. I got the message loud and clear.
Love this! Expresses what I was thinking too… it’s all about tact. Telling your wife off about tznius is a lack of respect for her. Respectfully telling her that this is not for out of the house is definitely appropriate in a relationship with proper communication.