It is amazing that you know what happened with your son. If you live in the NY metro area contact Avi Fishoff. If you cant get his number ask the MOD to get in touch with me.
You as a parent need to learn how to deal with this issue as much as the kid needs to deal with his issues. We are with Avi a year now and we see a big turn around.
There are people in the group who have tried everything to no avail – Avi’s method works wonders.
Avi does not fix the child but fixes the parents – We are all broken and need to learn how to deal with it.
Everyone in the group will tell you that Avi’s method works wonders.
Good luck and remember I am here to help.