“You could have caused serious injury by having chairs that couldn’t hold the person’s weight.”
Who could know the weight limit of any given chair??? I’m not ever sure if this comment is serious or you’re trying to make a point with reverse psychology.
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Anyhow: Listen, If you’ve befriended this person, and you’ve partaken in the simcha, give the guy a break. It costs a lot of money to be able to throw parties. Also, are you seriously worried about the guy breaking your chairs? if so, try to meet him at his home or on neutral territory.
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For the moderators: This is a serious question that I am sincerely interested in hearing about. Please do not close this thread. Some people are big, some people are small, let’s all just be sensitive to their needs. but AVOIDING THIS ISSUE WILL NOT HELP A SINGLE PERSON LEARN. If someone is being insensitive, say why you think this the case and move on, we can all learn from this situation.