Vouge – hashkafa is an artificial system that drags us away from the tachlis of life. Instead of worrying which hashkafa you fit into, or what demands different ones make of you, focus instead of what the actual halacha is and where you are holding (as well as were you want your life to go) within the bounds of HALACHA. When looking for your husband try to find somebody who best matches that. You may have a perfect picture in your mind of exactly how your home will look once your married but you’d be shocked how much more you (and your husband) will find yourselves and develop in ways you’d never expect after the wedding (whether to the right, left, or both). The (Jewish) world is the way it is and neither you nor I are going to change it any time soon so just life as best you can according to real halacha, try to connect to Hashem as best you can in life and ignore all the rest – it will only make you frustrated/bitter.
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