zd: I had a post saying the same thing. I wonder what happened to it.
Anyway, I agree with you 100%. It’s not only that people are pressuring her, it’s that she feels pressured to follow those people. You can only move so fast without tripping and falling- move through things at a pace that feels right and natural. You are not Rebbetzin Kanievsky and she was not you. Listen to rap or don’t, but what other people say about it is not the point. Listen to them, but assimilate the information, if you so choose, at the rate that makes sense internally.
Good luck!