Reply To: Ask the opposite gender

I think it’s weird to make such a big to-do over shirt color or “wacky socks.” It’s actions and middos that count. There wouldn’t be such a “shidduch crisis” if we taught our children to ignore the fashion and focus on the personality.

I think the POINT

is that the colored shirt

says something about the guy’s

GENERAL LIFESTYLE.

Also, why would a girl

even TRY to mitigate

my SWAG

by shopping for me?