It’s hard for me sometimes to “judge”, because I try to see the good in all people. Even in this coffee room- some people are more brazen or blunt with their comments, but that shouldn’t determine their goodness level. Especially since we are only viewing these people in 1 setting. I think most people are really sincere and an anonymous forum is their opportunity to express themselves and seek advice.
Neverthless, I’m pretty judgemental. Usually (perhaps it is a gut feeling) I can figure out a person in a matter of minutes. This is more based on observations of them than actual conversation. My judgements are usually based on what type they are and personality…