live right – So what exactly do most girls do if they don’t get married straight out of sem? Stop being so pessimistic. Just because your husband is taking a long time to get to you doesn’t mean he’s never coming…
What irks me the most about the whole shidduch scene today is that boys who were considered at-risk can just fly off to Israel for a few years and then come home at 23 and have a ton of girls lined up for him to choose from. He’s such a malach, look where he is now, who cares about his past…As opposed to a girl who was troubled as a teen, no matter how many “Israel trips” she’s taken there is still something seriously wrong with her and people can’t look past that.