Guess what people, elitists are everywhere; religious observance not withstanding. It’s a Jewish trait. It’s part of our genetics. Every Jew has an opinion, and every Jew is convinced HE is right.
I have personally seen it in so many communities of many different religious beliefs and observances. What we need is some Jewish pride, and that includes the diversity that goes along with being Jewish. There isn’t one right way to live, we got 600,000 ways. Everyone has a different mission, with different Nisyonos. Stop judging, and focus on your own issues. Recently I’ve been working on pointing out the good factors from any individual/group that I disagree with. Sometimes just in general, pointing out the good in people who’s values are different then mine, and knowing I can’t judge them because they’re nisayonos and purpose is different then mine.